Kundli Milan
There is a beautiful saying about marriage that “Marriages are made in heaven” but we are forgetting that Marriages are broken on earth. Success for a happy married life is begins with Kundli Milan. It is crucial and utmost necessity to their match Janam Kundli for attaining correct judgment on their suitability criteria. Amongst Hindus, marriage realizes the equality of partners in respect of Dharma, Artha, Karma and Moksha. In the Vedic Astrology of India, Kundali Matching is considered as a first stage of negotiating for an alliance. It should be considered beneath to all other factors such as: - physical fitness, mental abilities, cultural-social-economic status and many more.
The compatibility question only arose when the first three factors indicates that they are going to stay together. Thus after examining the basic structure of Horoscopes of both partners along with the compatibility examination with their ‘Gana’ agreement & ‘Mangali dosha’ it is ensured that they do have long married life. The need for assessing the structure of the horoscope need be over emphasized before examining aspect of compatibility. There are total 36 Ganas and in the Gana agreement, compatibility of partners is examined from various points of views relevant to happy married life. The various aspects & points assigned to them are:-
Utmost importance in Gana agreement is given to Nadi which reflect physiological and hereditary factors. On the basis of birth nakshtras, Nadiis mainly of three types ADI, MADHYA, & ANTYA. If the boy and the girl belong to the same Nadi, it is considered to be Nadi Dosha. It is said that Nadi Dosha could adversely affect the compatibility and health of the married couple.
After Nadi, next most importance phase is matching their moon sign i.e. to examine mutual disposition of moon sign of two. It is also referred to as Bhakoot. These may be 7-7, 2-12, 3-11, 4-10, 5-9 & 6-8. After Bhakoot, next stage is the Gana-maitri. It indicates nature of the person as: - Divine (Deva), Human (Manushya) & Demon (Rakshash). The Deva gana indicates dignity & goodness; Manushya indicates combination of good & bad, whereas Rakshash indicates contempt, malice, & selfishness. The marriage between same gana is considered to be the best whereas the boy of Deva gana and girl of Rakshash girl or vice- versa are strictly prohibited.
The next phase is of Matching of lords of moon signs. It is crucial from the view point of harmony between husband and wife. Yoni indicates sexual compatibility between partners. The Tara indicates problems in the married life, likely to be faced by the couple. Vashya is very important for the purpose of mutual attraction between the partners. Varna which is categorized as Brahmin, Kshtrya & Shudra indicates the capacity to take on the responsibility of the family. For successful happy married life, the compatibility of boy should be more than that of girl.
We, therefore, see the compatibility from the different angles. In case there is matching of more than 18 ganas, marriages are recommended. Another important factor for Kundli Milan is matching the ‘Mangali Dosha’. It is basically the harmful effect of Mars. Mars is the only planet that has the privilege of being the reason for breaking marriage. ‘Mangali Dosham’ is referred as adverse effects of Mars on their spouse life. With the ‘Mangali Dosham’ in their horoscope the boy is known as ‘Mangalik’ boy or the girl is known as ‘Mangalik’ girl.
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